Your Feet Must Be Tired...

A Few Things I Know For Sure
With: John Patrick Adams
Thursday, July 11, 2019 9:13 AM
So you’re really into him/her? Lay down at night thinking about him/her? Can’t wait until the morning to talk with him/her? First thing you do is send that “GM” text to him/her? Throughout the day, you’re texting back and forth with him/her??? You’re excited to interact with him/her, but you’ve noticed a pattern that you don’t like about him/her… You know you’re this “kick ass” woman/man, but you’ve noticed all interaction is driven by YOU… Is it you’re not giving the other person an opportunity to hit you up first? Is it he/she isn’t into you as strong as you’re into him/her? Who knows, but right about now you’re feeling like you’re chasing behind him/her…

Some of you struggle with dating… You struggle because you’re unable to gauge whether or not, YOU’RE TOO MUCH! You’ve had some pretty bad relationships in the past and you’ve learned from them, so at this phase of life, you’re not about the games. You’re mature enough to admit you’re feeling him/her; want to talk with him/her, yet you’re not getting this in return. Again, is it you’re not giving the other person an opportunity to hit you up first? Is it he/she isn’t into you as strong as you’re into him/her? Who knows, but right about now, you’re feeling like you’re chasing behind him/her.

Now I’m all about being honest with yourself and if you’re into someone, you should go for it, but there are limits… I get you’re mature; secure in your own skin, and you go after what you want… But at some point you have to know when to pull back… If you’re always texting; reaching out first, you do one of three things… You either rob the other person of the opportunity; train them to wait on you to make the move, or you flat out turn them off… Sometimes it’s good to allow yourself to be chased… Give him/her an opportunity to express their interest through their actions. Give him/her an opportunity to miss that “GM” text… Give him/her the opportunity to see you’re this strong, independent woman/man… Don’t present yourself as clingy, needy, and thirsty, BACK OFF!!!

What I know for sure is… You are worth being chased… You are worth someone coming after you… You are worth a “GM” text; DM, call and email that’s not initiated by you… Stop being available and constantly at someone’s disposal… Chasing after people only wears YOU down, so give him/her the opportunity to miss your presence in their life. You can't be missed, if you're always present... Truth is, if you're not missed, evidently your presence brings no value to their day or life, therefore this is not the person you want… Stop chasing, your feet must be tired by now…

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